Have you kept putting off the idea of counseling? Join the hundreds of couples who do the same thing. But why is this the case?
For many, it’s the classic story of thinking that their problems are not all that serious. They see Christian counselors as a last resort and should only be given serious thought when things get really bad. The sad thing about this is that when they finally do seek marriage counseling help with a Christian licensed pastoral counselor, it might be too late.
Have you kept putting off the idea of counseling? Join the hundreds of couples who do the same thing. But why is this the case?
For many, it’s the classic story of thinking that their problems are not all that serious. They see Christian counselors as a last resort and should only be given serious thought when things get really bad. The sad thing about this is that when they finally do seek marriage counseling help with a Christian licensed pastoral counselor, it might be too late.
Have you kept putting off the idea of marriage counseling? Join the hundreds of couples who do the same thing. But why is this the case?
For many, it’s the classic story of thinking that their problems are not all that serious. They see Christian counselors as a last resort and should only be given serious thought when things get really bad. The sad thing about this is that when they finally do seek marriage counseling help with a Christian licensed pastoral counselor, it might be too late.
It’s like leaving a casserole in the oven for another three minutes — what could have been a good dinner is suddenly not.
Why Do Couples Wait So Long to Get Christian Counseling?
There’s never just one reason why couples wait so long. Some other reasons are:
- Fear of judgment
They are afraid of being judged by a Christian counselor or of a Christian therapist taking sides. Licensed pastoral counselors are trained to specifically remain neutral.
- Fear of vulnerability
Couples are nervous about being vulnerable and talking about personal issues with a third party, even if that person shares their Christian beliefs. They see it as a sign of weakness rather than the reality that facing one’s struggles shows courage.
- Time constraints
With most couples working full-time jobs and worrying about childcare, they don’t make time for regular marriage counseling sessions.
- Cost
They worry about the cost, and they’d much rather put the money into other issues that feel more pressing.
- Fear of escalating conflict
They’re afraid of talking about long-standing issues because they think that bringing them to light could cause the marriage to self-destruct.
- Thinking more self-effort will fix things
One spouse can feel that if they complete a self-written to-do list, it will make them a better spouse and there won’t be any more problems.
- One partner is less willing to go
Even if your partner is unwilling to come to a couples counseling session, set up some individual counseling appointments for yourself. It will help you rest in the peaceful presence of God and allow him to heal your heart.
Let us reassure you that no matter what’s holding you back, Head to Heart Restoration Ministry is very much a place of God’s grace and compassion, and you will find the safe space you need with one of our licensed pastoral counselors.
Does Marriage Counseling Work?
When you ask if marriage counseling works, it depends on the outcome you are hoping for. Are you hoping for a stronger relationship, better communication, less hurt?
For those who recognize they need help and have decided to address their issues early on, there is a lot of help a Christian counselor can give. It’s not true that waiting means there is no hope left, as we have seen many couples see their marriages restored here. It’s just that the earlier we see you, the faster you can face your struggles and begin to address them with the tools Christian counseling can give.
As Mignon McLaughlin said, “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person” (Aperçus: The Aphorisms of Mignon McLaughlin)
As Mignon McLaughlin said, “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person” (Aperçus: The Aphorisms of Mignon McLaughlin)
No matter what shape your marriage is in today, know that the Heart to Heart team can keep walking alongside you with the compassion and grace needed to keep you moving forward into a new level of love and a new direction for your family.
What Happens in Christian Marriage Counseling?
When you first contact us through the form on this site, we will assign you the licensed pastoral counselor we believe would be the best fit for your marital needs, if you have not expressed a preference.
Then we will invite you in for an introductory session to hear your story and help you decide how you would like to move forward.
Because we are a Christian counseling service, we will also ask about your journey with Jesus so far. Every story is unique, and we’d love to hear how yours came to be.
We will ask each of you what you want to achieve through working with a Christian counselor and line up your expectations for the counseling process. We can help with life transitions, affair recovery, family issues, blended families, relationship issues, parenting issues, tough situations, and other relationship problems.
We also offer individual Christian counseling for sexual addiction, healing of past events, life issues, grief, depression, self-esteem issues, and anxiety.
You can expect to be heard and respected, and we will encourage you to do the same for your spouse. Humility, honesty, and being open to your journey in Christian counseling can set the stage for healing and growth.
Our hope is that we can teach you how to lean toward each other rather than away in difficult times and that in the years to come, you’ll both look back at this time of couples counseling and thank God for carrying you through and giving you good tools for your future together.
Christian Marriage Counseling in Round Rock
Ready to nurture your relationship? Connect with a licensed pastoral counselor at Head to Heart Restoration Ministry in Round Rock for an introductory session. If you do not live in the area or prefer to not meet at the office, video conferencing is also available.
No matter what’s been holding you back until now, whether you’re young adults or retirees, please don’t wait any longer. The emotional transformation possible through Christian counseling is limitless.
Whether you’re facing what seems to be an insurmountable obstacle or communication challenges in your relationship, or you simply wish to show one another more love, our team of Christian counselors is here to support you and serve you with our many years of extensive experience. Book your appointment today and begin the journey of deepening the love and hope you began with.